Indescretion Number One

We had been married around two years and had just moved back to Florida from Illinois where the company I had worked for had filed for bankruptcy, The year was 1968 and it was Spring. I was enrolled in college and working part-time as a draftsman for a company that made mobile homes. She was working as a Cosmetologist, we were living with her parents and trying to make ends meet. The part time job ended and I got a job delivering orange juice, you do whatever it takes to survive.

The damn Psych. Course is where it all started. I had been as faithful as a lap dog, never strayed, I don't even think I looked at the menu, I always knew where I would be eating. A brief aside if I may. My wife at the time of our wedding was 5'4” tall, 118 lbs, 34B, blonde hair and absolutely gorgeous. This Psych course was great, the Prof was great it was all good, but heavy. I sat next to a woman who as having some difficulty and we chatted at break about what was going on in class and decided to meet over coffee to further discuss the points she was having an issue with. I met her one day for lunch at her place of employment, she was the executive secretary to the Mayor of the city, no I'm not naming the city. I met the Mayor and we chatted for a bit and then his secretary and I went off to lunch, and we discussed Psych. Class.

Afternoon meetings were getting tough for me because of work so we started meeting at night after class, rut-roh!! We met at her apartment as she had no money and I had less so we were on the cheap. One thing led to another and it wasn't long and a kiss led to more kissing and even more kissing and pretty soon our hands started to roam. It wasn't long and she was naked, I was naked and then she told me.........WHOOPS! It's that time of the month, at this point, being young, virile and with a hard-on that could drive nails, I was not to be denied, YEAH, RIGHT. I got her off by playing with her clit and she gave me a hand-job. I went home, continued to see her in class but we never crossed that line again.

I don't remember how I felt after having her get me off, was I scared, ashamed, excited, I just can't recall. That was my very first time that I strayed, I wish it had been my last!

An Introduction

It's said that confession is good for the soul, I don't think any amount of confessing will help me but maybe this confession will help others.

• About Me -

I am 67 years old soon to be 68, married for almost 46 years to same wonderful woman who is 66 years old. My wife puts up with and I don't know why, she must love me a ton and I don't deserve it but even with all of my transgressions and faults I truly love her. I had open heart surgery at 58, plus numerous other surgeries through out my life, I am hard on my body.

I spent quite a few years in the US Air Force and finally found my calling in the world of Information Technology. The last 18 years of my career were spent as a consultant either working for another company and towards the end working for myself. I was on the road all the time, fly out to the client site on Monday morning and back home to wife on Friday evening. The money was good, the challenges were fun, the travel sucked. I was lonely and that was just part of the problem, I enjoy people, all people and the challenges that people present. I'm weird and I know it.

Cheating on your spouse by some is due to sexual issues, she is always tired, he is always tired, she is/has become frigid, he isn't interested in her anymore. He wants to experiment, she doesn't, she wants to experiment and he doesn't. Finally, lack of communication when it comes to the marriage bed, she has desires and fantasies and won't tell him and he has the same and won't spill his guts either.

My issues/problems are just that, mine, and I didn't deal with them very well, too bad I found out so late in life. As I write about my indiscretions/affairs I hope you will see what I was looking for and that you will learn from my experiences.

If you to send me an email and ask about specifics, then please do, I'll respond to all.