An Introduction

It's said that confession is good for the soul, I don't think any amount of confessing will help me but maybe this confession will help others.

• About Me -

I am 67 years old soon to be 68, married for almost 46 years to same wonderful woman who is 66 years old. My wife puts up with and I don't know why, she must love me a ton and I don't deserve it but even with all of my transgressions and faults I truly love her. I had open heart surgery at 58, plus numerous other surgeries through out my life, I am hard on my body.

I spent quite a few years in the US Air Force and finally found my calling in the world of Information Technology. The last 18 years of my career were spent as a consultant either working for another company and towards the end working for myself. I was on the road all the time, fly out to the client site on Monday morning and back home to wife on Friday evening. The money was good, the challenges were fun, the travel sucked. I was lonely and that was just part of the problem, I enjoy people, all people and the challenges that people present. I'm weird and I know it.

Cheating on your spouse by some is due to sexual issues, she is always tired, he is always tired, she is/has become frigid, he isn't interested in her anymore. He wants to experiment, she doesn't, she wants to experiment and he doesn't. Finally, lack of communication when it comes to the marriage bed, she has desires and fantasies and won't tell him and he has the same and won't spill his guts either.

My issues/problems are just that, mine, and I didn't deal with them very well, too bad I found out so late in life. As I write about my indiscretions/affairs I hope you will see what I was looking for and that you will learn from my experiences.

If you to send me an email and ask about specifics, then please do, I'll respond to all.